Empowering Hope: Magnolia Ministries

Just down the road from our Jackson Terminal office, in the heart of East Knoxville, Magnolia Ministries works tirelessly towards their goals – goals that share the same heart as Help You Dwell. Goals geared toward helping folks reclaim things in their lives, and promote peace in the midst of chaos. The goal of Magnolia Ministries, in the words of Emily Hurley, the Magnolia Women’s Center coordinator, is “to meet women where they are and walk in relationships through all of the struggles and victories of life.”

While their office is located on the second floor of Likewise Coffee, Magnolia Ministries runs the Magnolia Women’s Center just a few blocks away in the heart of East Knoxville and serves as a low-barrier day center that provides a sanctuary for vulnerable and exploited women in our community and is a vital lifeline and resource for women.

Emily explained that their system is thoughtfully designed to guide women through three essential phases as they reclaim aspects of everyday life: identification, stability, and sustainability. This journey begins with building trust, taking courageous steps toward case management and then beginning to work their way to obtaining vital documents like state IDs, birth certificates, and social security cards, which paves the way to access to jobs, healthcare, housing, counseling, and more. 

The Magnolia Women’s Center offers a nurturing community that uplifts and supports each individual that passes through their door. Here, basic needs are met and women have access to essential services such as first aid care, nap rooms, laundry facilities, hot showers, clothing, hygiene products, nourishing meals, and perhaps most importantly, a general sense of security and community.

The staff and case managers at Magnolia Ministries work daily to empower women by continually providing support and walking alongside them through various obstacles. That could  mean aiding in completing essential paperwork, attending doctors visits, advocating for them, listening to their stories and  celebrating their victories. The Magnolia Ministries team remains a steadfast and unwavering presence in the lives of the women they are serving. It is the spirit of compassion and commitment to building relationships that truly defines their work. 

Recently, Help You Dwell had an opportunity to utilize our collective organizing expertise to help the staff set up their donation center for succinct and efficient donation management. 

The donation center is near their main office and is where the staff sort and store donations of clothing, hygiene products, and food that supply the Magnolia Women’s Center.  Upon our arrival, our team of organizers could see firsthand the profound impact the Magnolia Women’s Center is having in Knoxville and their clear passion for their mission to support women. We also saw a room overflowing with donations that needed a sustainable way to continually access what they needed.

Well, if you know anything about us..we couldn’t get started quickly enough! Sorting, collaborating, and thinking through what systems would work best.

As we worked, the atmosphere buzzed with a sense of excitement and determination. Each team member worked with vigor to set up this donation center in ways that would empower the staff so that they could, in turn, empower the women they serve. 

Our collaboration with the Magnolia Women’s Center was not just about organizing physical spaces; it was about joining hands with an organization that embodies the ideals of hope and empowerment. We are deeply grateful for the opportunity to support their mission and witness the transformative impact they have on the lives of women in our community.  It was truly a joy to work together to serve our beautiful community.

Magnolia Ministries extends its impact through Likewise Coffee + Roastery in East Knoxville and Cultivate Coffee in Fountain City. At both of these locations, you can find the "Magnolia Made" collection that features handmade earrings crafted by women in the community. This initiative not only nurtures creativity and positivity but also paves the way for women to envision brighter futures. When you purchase these earrings from Likewise Coffee + Roastery and Cultivate Coffee, you are directly supporting the women involved.

We invite you to join us in supporting the incredible work of the Magnolia Ministries and be a part of this journey toward empowerment and hope. To learn more about Magnolia Ministries and the Magnolia Women’s Center, or the work of their parent organization, Raising a Voice, you can check out the links below.

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Organizing Tips for an Older Home

One of the best parts of the work we do at Help You Dwell is getting to visit so many different types of homes across Knoxville and surrounding areas. Oftentimes, our clients will reach out because they live in an older home with little storage and lots of organizing challenges. And we love a good challenge!

Edenvale, my childhood home

Growing up in a home built in 1857, where my parents still reside, has given me a front row seat watching my mother’s ingenuity in utilizing various types of furniture to create order in our home.

Now, at Help You Dwell, we have had the great pleasure of working in dozens of homes facing similar challenges. Here are some of our favorite solutions for homes designed before IKEA, Amazon, and Home Goods made it way too easy to fill our homes to the brim!

 

Have a wall? Add a hook or two!

One common necessity missing in many older homes is an entryway closet. Without that convenient spot to hang coats, purses, backpacks, or leave your rain boots, the entryway can become a cluttered mess, scattering these all over the house.

Instead, we’ve installed a few systems to best utilize the entry space and make the most of that area. And let’s not forget the tried-and-true hall tree, which can whip an entryway into shape in a jiffy.

Bookshelves are our friends.

I’ve lived in a 4 different homes built before before 1930 and have come to realize the great versatility, function, and beauty of a good bookshelf. A bookshelf can do much more than hold books because of the many options of decorative baskets and bins available these days to match any design style. They also come in so many different sizes and styles that you can find what you need to fit just about any space.

We’ve used bookcases in kids’ rooms for toy bins, easy-access clothing, collectibles, and books. They’ve been incorporated into kitchens for storing excess items when cabinet space is limited. One area that can greatly benefit, but isn’t often considered, is the landing at top of the stairs. This can be a great way to store linens in cloth baskets if you’re lacking a linen closet, or it can be a catch-all for electronic accessories, toiletry refills, or other items that need a home.

Another helpful aspect of using bookcases is their versatility - they aren’t permanent fixtures. As your season of life changes, so do the items in your home. Bookcases allow you to easily adjust and adapt to honor those changes.

Cupboards, Armoires, and Dressers… oh my!

Another go-to for creating order in an older home is to use a beautiful heirloom, an antique piece, or a practical furniture item to store a variety of items.

As my children have grown older, I’ve repurposed one special red dresser in various ways. Initially, it held their clothes; later, it found use near our kitchen for their plates, cups, and more. For a brief period, it served as a bedside table, and its final role in our home was storing art supplies. Another versatile piece we have is an antique meal bin. Ours currently houses our pup’s food.

We’ve helped to convert armoires to office supply storage, used antique cupboards for overflow kitchen storage, and filled dressers with family games, puzzles, bed linens and table linens.

Help You Dwell loves to honor the history and character of an old home. Being resourceful with the pieces you already own, or thoughtfully considering the next piece to bring into your home, can be game changers for creating organization within your space.

We’d love to hear about some of the creative ways you’ve stored your belongings as well! Please share your ideas in our comments below or share a challenge in your home that we can help you with.

We can’t wait to help you dwell!

A Decade of Help You Dwell

 
 

10 years ago, Caroline and I sat on these two stools in the newly opened KBrew and talked about what we wanted to do next. Little did we know that 63 HYD staff members, 4 different office locations, 16 consignment sales, 500+ volunteer hours of work, and more than 3200 clients in 5 different states later, we would be celebrating a decade of working alongside incredible clients to help them reclaim their homes.

Our shared love of homes and serving the folks who live in them is even greater today than it was in 2014 when we started this journey. We have learned so much from each other and from our clients about how to create order and peace in homes - and there’s still so much more to come! 

We are thrilled to begin this next decade with a dedicated,  experienced and growing team full of ideas and energy to bring into your homes as we help you love where you live.

And just for fun, enjoy these pics from the incredible journey we’ve had so far!

A Mindful Approach to the New Year

Happy New Year, from your favorite ladies at Help You Dwell! 

As we step into the fresh beginnings of 2024, it's natural to find ourselves contemplating resolutions and envisioning a year of positive change. The allure of a new start can be exciting, but it often comes with the pressure of reinventing ourselves and setting unrealistic expectations. Today I would urge you to try to imagine a different perspective — a mindful approach to the new year that focuses on refinement, gratitude, and intentional living.

In a world bombarding us with social media's curated perfection and marketers promising instant transformations, it's easy to feel overwhelmed. If you've found yourself scrolling through products, plans, and promises, wondering why your life doesn't match the perfectly curated images, you're not alone. Clever marketers target these vulnerabilities, making us question our worth and leaving us asking questions like ‘Is there something wrong with me?’ & ‘Why can’t I live this way?’

This year I urge you to take a moment to reflect on what speaks to your soul and enriches your experience. Rather than seeking out what new things or products that could bring you joy, consider what small mindset shifts may contribute to an even deeper understanding of true joy.  

Rather than succumbing to the pressure of setting grandiose resolutions, consider evaluating what you truly desire for your life. It's probably not about acquiring new things but cultivating new routines, fostering more calm, and reducing chaos. Set reasonable expectations for yourself and embrace the support of those around you. This may look like making small revisions in your daily routine, finding ways to make better use of what you already have, and appreciating where you already are. 

I won't be another voice on your screen telling you to ‘live your best life’ without offering practical assistance. If you're feeling overwhelmed and need someone by your side for the transition into the new year, reach out to our wonderful Kayla to schedule a consultation with one of our devoted ladies, and let us help you dwell in a space of peace and order. 

At Help You Dwell, our mission is to assist you in finding peace and order with the things you already have. We're here to support you, cheer you on, and help you tackle overwhelming tasks. You're doing just fine, and we're here to ensure you believe that!

Let 2024 be the year of mindful choices, gratitude for what we have, and a commitment to refining our lives rather than chasing unattainable ideals. Together, let's make this new year a chapter of growth, contentment, and peaceful living. Cheers to a mindful and fulfilling 2024!

Reflecting On Traditions: Holiday Treats

As we celebrate this wonderful time of year, let’s pay tribute to our memories, treasures, and traditions - old and new. From our family to yours we offer our warmest wishes for the best holiday season ever. It’s time to celebrate!

At Help You Dwell, we feel truly blessed to have been welcomed into your homes this year. This season is a celebration of togetherness, which has prompted me to reflect more on my own family’s Christmas traditions.

Upon reflection, of all the holiday traditions my family enjoys my favorite ones seem to revolve around food. I don’t really know what that says about me, but I do know that holiday meals satisfy more than our appetite. They feed our need for tradition. The delicious smell of fresh baked cookies, the savory taste of special sauces and meats - these are the foods we remember.

Despite the years, distance and hectic schedules my family tries to maintain some of the traditions started long ago. If you asked any one of my little sisters they would say our most beloved family tradition is making Christmas sugar cookies together. Although a simple tradition, the whole process is beloved by young and old in our home. Every year, my sisters and I gather in the kitchen one night and roll out the dough and cut batches of sugar cookie dough into festive and often over decorated treats. They never turn out perfectly and that’s what makes the whole process memorable. Each cookie is made with love and any imperfections are quickly covered with sprinkles and frosting. Using the same festive cookie cutters from when I was little, everyone joins in on cutting, baking, frosting, and drowning our confections in sprinkles. The only rule that we follow is that there is always more room for more frosting and more sprinkles!

If you're feeling ambitious, pull out your favorite cookie recipe and let the baking extravaganza begin. From classic sugar cookies to indulgent chocolate chip delights, there's a recipe for every taste bud. Gather your loved ones and make it a family affair, creating cherished memories that will linger long after the last cookie crumb is devoured.

Below I’ve included the classic sugar cookie recipe that I use with my little sisters — if you try it out tag us on instagram so I can see your masterpieces!

Sugar Cookies:

2 1/2 c. all-purpose flour

1 c. granulated sugar

2 tsp. vanilla extract

1 tsp. kosher salt

1/2 tsp. baking powder

1/4 tsp. baking soda

1 c. unsalted butter (softened)

1 large egg (room temperature)

1. Combine the flour, cornstarch, salt, baking powder, and baking soda in a medium bowl.

2. Cream together the butter and sugar in a medium bowl, add the egg and vanilla, and beat until fully combined. Slowly add in the dry ingredients, mixing just until combined.

3. Wrap in plastic wrap and refrigerate until chilled - at least 1 hour.

4. Preheat oven to 375° and roll out the chilled dough on a lightly floured surface and cut out your christmas shapes.

6. Bake for 9 to 10 minutes

Icing:

1/2 c. unsalted butter, softened

3 c. powdered sugar

2-3 tbsp. milk or cream

1 tsp. vanilla extract

1/2 tsp. kosher salt

red and green food coloring

sprinkles

1. Beat the butter until creamy, slowly add in the powdered sugar, milk, vanilla and salt, beating until fully combined. Increase the mixer speed to medium and beat until lightened and creamy.

 
 

Written by Isabelle

Home for the Holidays: The Ultimate Local Gift Guide

This holiday season, join us in the spirit of intentional giving with our curated gift guide - a tribute to the remarkable local businesses that enrich our community. Each of these businesses offer unique and thoughtful gifts that are sure to bring joy to your loved ones, and make a positive impact on the place we call home. While our guide highlights some of the best, remember that there are countless other local gems waiting to be discovered in our town, each offering the perfect gift to make this holiday season truly memorable.

The Happy Envelope: Luxury in Every Detail

The Happy Envelope stands out for its exquisite offerings, from luxury letterpress wedding invitations to custom stationery and art prints. Delve into their collection of gifts that will not only capture your attention but also make your heart smile with every thoughtful detail.

The Plaid Apron: A Farm to Table Staple 

Delight someone's taste buds with a meal or gift card from The Plaid Apron. This eatery bridges the gap between farmer and restaurant offering a delicious culinary experience that supports local producers.

The Painted Perch & Co: A Market of Treasures

This market boasts over 30 vendors offering a diverse range of goods, from antiques and painted furniture to local artwork and handmade pieces. Find unique holiday items that support a good cause.

Union Avenue Books: A Literary Haven

Dive into the world of literature with Union Avenue Books, Downtown Knoxville's locally-owned independent bookstore. Explore their vast selection and support local authors by choosing a book that speaks to the heart of your loved ones.

Stanley’s Greenhouse: Nature's Gifts

Located south of downtown Knoxville, Stanley’s Greenhouse is a locally-owned retreat for plant lovers. Explore their Holiday Marketplace every Sunday in December for gifts and decor crafted by local artisans.

The District Gallery and Framery: Where Art Comes to Life

The District Gallery is a haven for art enthusiasts, offering custom framing and a stunning array of one-of-a-kind jewelry and artwork from local and regional artists. Uncover the perfect piece to adorn your loved one's space.

Doing Dishes: Unearth Vintage Charm  

Step into the charming world of Doing Dishes, a quirky little shop that specializes in buying and selling vintage, antique, and collectible china by the piece. Discover unique treasures and add a touch of nostalgia to your holiday gifting with their one-of-a-kind selection.

71 South: Dining in the Heart of Baker Creek Preserve 

Nestled within Knoxville's Urban Wilderness, 71 South offers a unique dining experience in a century-old converted church. A casual atmosphere with local brews and handcrafted cocktails - a perfect destination for any occasion.

Minimal Optimist: Sustainable and Stylish

Explore the sustainable and eco-friendly lifestyle boutique, Minimal Optimist, for naturally inspired goods and unique gifts. Each item reflects a commitment to sustainability, making it the perfect choice for those who appreciate style with a conscience.

Roost: Thoughtfully Curated Home Goods

Nestled in downtown Maryville, Roost is a boutique furniture and home goods store. Beyond offering stylish items, they provide professional interior design services to help you style your space, ensuring your home is as unique as you are.

Bradley’s Gift & Home: Handcrafted Delights

Bradley’s offers a delightful array of handmade sweets, unique home goods, and special gifts for any occasion. Discover ornaments, candles, and decor that add a personal touch to your holiday gifting.

Fig & Co.: Unique Finds for the Home

Fig & Co. is your destination for one-of-a-kind goods, including accent decor, art, furniture, and gifts. Browse their selection of holiday decor and gifts that will make a statement in any home.

Gather: Modern Farmhouse Charm

Experience the charm of modern farmhouse aesthetics at Gather, where you'll find specialty finds for baby, home, and gorgeous accessories for your loved ones. Their seasonal merchandise is a beautiful blend of style and southern hospitality.

Help You Dwell: The Gift of Tranquility

Give the gift of Help You Dwell's organizing services to a friend, loved one, or neighbor. Perfect for new moms, transitioning homeowners, or anyone who could use a little extra love in the form of an organized space.

Photography Session: Capturing Moments

For the gift of memories, give the gift of a timeless photo session that will be cherished for years to come. 

Heather Anne Thomas: the visionary behind Beall + Thomas Photography, who transforms moments into timeless works of art. Heather's elegant style and commitment to perfection results in photographs that are not just snapshots but pieces of art that you'll proudly display in your home. 

Suzy Collins Photography: A keen eye for capturing genuine emotions make her family photo sessions a truly enjoyable experience. Suzy captures images that celebrate the essence of family bonds, she has a remarkable talent for immortalizing the genuine moments in any session. 

As the season of giving unfolds, let's unite in celebrating the joy of intentional giving by supporting our local businesses. By choosing to shop locally, you not only find unique gifts but also play a crucial role in maintaining the vibrancy and resilience of our community. Happy Holidays!

Savoring the Season: Simplify Your Celebration

Hosting can be stressful. The familiar worries always seem to creep in: "Do I have enough food? Is the table set perfectly? Have I accommodated everyone? Is everyone having fun? Am I even having fun??" 

The list of worries seems never-ending, and if you've ever played the role of the host, you've likely felt the nagging sense of worry that threatens to overshadow the joy of being surrounded by our loved ones. Well I am here to remind you, a shared meal or any gathering for that matter doesn't need to be fancy or stressful – It's about connecting, sharing stories, and creating lasting memories.

The key to an enjoyable gathering lies in simplifying the process. You don't need to strive for perfection or overwhelm yourself with the details. Instead, focus on the privilege of being able to gather with loved ones, an experience that should never be taken for granted.

 

Space Planning: 

Before you start setting the table and sending out invitations, begin with a practical task that will ease the overall process. Take the time to declutter and organize your pantry, fridge, and freezer. Clear out expired snacks and consider using those bags of frozen veggies to create a hearty stew or use the frozen fruit in your holiday pie. By freeing up this space, you'll not only make the day of your gathering less stressful but also ensure there's plenty of room to store leftovers!

Help You Dwell - Organize

At a recent project, our team had the pleasure of working with a client who frequently hosts and caters to large groups. Our goal was to set up this space to streamline her collection of baking & cooking supplies within her pantry. We were able to optimize this space ensuring that everything is accessible and thoughtfully arranged, just in time for the holiday season!

Embrace what you have: 

You don't need excessive decor or an elaborate tablescape to impress your guests. When it comes to holiday decor, less is often more. Start by choosing a simple and cohesive 'scheme' for your decorations. This can be as simple as selecting a color palette or a specific theme that resonates with the holiday spirit you wish to convey.

Skip the clutter! Avoid the temptation to clutter your space with unnecessary decorations. Overloading your home with seasonal decor can not only be overwhelming to the eye but can also make hosting more complicated. My favorite simple way to decorate your holiday tablescape is to take a step outside and scavenge for wildflowers, branches or dried leaves!

Whether you collect a few branches of evergreen, arrange acorns in a glass jar, or create a centerpiece with dried leaves, the simplicity of nature can be beautiful. These elements can be easily collected, and when the festivities are over, they can be returned to the great outdoors - now that’s an easy clean up! Remember: the key to a memorable holiday gathering lies in the warmth of your hospitality and the joy of your company. Simplify your decor, relax, and enjoy the festivities.

Let your friends help you:

Don't bear the full weight of hosting on your shoulders. Instead, invite your guests to participate and share in the responsibilities. After all, everyone has a favorite dish, and every good guest wants to contribute in some way. As the host, it's perfectly acceptable to delegate tasks!

By involving your guests in this way, you not only reduce your personal burden but also enhance the sense of togetherness and shared accomplishment. Hosting a memorable gathering becomes a collective effort, making the experience more enjoyable and meaningful for everyone involved.

Hosting should be a joyous and heartwarming experience, not a daunting or overwhelming one. By focusing on what truly matters – the connections we forge and the love we share – you can create a gathering that everyone will treasure. So, release the burden of perfection and enjoy the journey of hosting, a privilege that brings people closer and creates beautiful memories to cherish for years to come.


The holiday hustle and bustle can sometimes get the best of us, but having a plan and keeping things simple can bring calm to the chaos of holiday party planning. If you need someone to help bring it all together, Help You Dwell would love to assist you in preparing your home for your next event.

We’ve still got availability on our calendar to schedule your holiday prep + takedown services this year. 

Let us Help You Dwell this holiday season.

Joining the Family: Get to Know Our Latest Team Members

At Help You Dwell, we take immense pride in our mission to bring order, harmony, and a dash of style into the lives of our valued clients. We're so excited to welcome three exceptional talents who share our passion for creating organized bliss in your home!

abby

A Knoxville native with a passion for creating organized spaces that bring joy to people's lives. Abby spent the last few years working in event management and serving up coffees at Backroads Market before attending Bible school in Northern England. She has been an incredible addition to the HYD team, helping people find simplicity and peace in their homes.

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mary gene

She brings not only her impressive organizational skills but also a deep love for people and their stories. Mary Gene is committed to using her talents to help individuals find serenity and order in their lives, and she wants everyone she meets to feel supported and never alone in their journey to reaching that goal.

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isabelle

With a dynamic background in digital marketing and interior design, Isabelle brings a unique blend of creativity and strategic thinking to our team as our Marketing Coordinator & Design Assistant. After attending University in the UK, Isabelle recently moved back to her hometown of Knoxville. She is genuinely excited to utilize her skills to help people feel truly at home in their spaces, creating environments that reflect both their personality and practical needs.

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What sets these remarkable individuals apart is not just their knack for organizing, but their dedication to understanding your unique needs and personal preferences. They bring their own distinctive flair to our team, enriching the diversity of styles and backgrounds that make Help You Dwell the leader in professional organizing in Knoxville, Tennessee.

We can't wait for you to meet them in person and experience the magic they can work in your spaces. If you're looking to embark on an organizing journey that's not only transformative but also tailored to your style and values, the Help You Dwell team is here to make it happen.

Welcome to the HYD family, Abby, Mary Gene, and Isabelle!

And special thanks to Suzy Collins Photography for the beautiful photos!

Renew the Heart of Your Home with a Cookware Revamp

As the cooler weather approaches, it beckons warm, home-cooked meals! Let's talk about some fresh perspectives on those kitchen staples, pots and pans, and how we can create organizational longevity this season.

Display Those Babies:

Maybe you've always admired kitchens where pots and pans are openly displayed, creating a sense of accessibility and charm. The good news is that this won't break the bank! Simply designate a space for open display, grab a rod, and some S-hooks, and make it happen. Here are a few options on our Amazon Storefront to DIY your perfect display! Hanging your pots and pans not only adds an artistic vibe to your kitchen but also transforms your gear into instruments of creativity and novelty. With this open displayed system, you'll stay organized, as you can easily wash and immediately put your cookware on display again. No more rummaging through low-lying cabinets—this is a win-win! 

Make Your Space Work for You:

If you love the idea of hanging pots and pans but lack cabinet space for this organizational method, fear not! You can still enjoy the ease of accessibility with a pull-out hanging potholder. We love how the lids effortlessly slide onto the handles of the pans—talk about staying organized in style! This guide from Family Handyman takes you through step-by-step to create this for yourself.

Stack 'Em Up:

Take a moment to assess your kitchen. How many pots and pans do you have? How many do you actually use on a weekly basis? It might be time to declutter and make your space more functional. Consider whether all your cookware still has value or if some pieces are worn out and need replacing.

Are they neatly organized, or do they seem to spill out of cabinets and drawers? Organization can greatly impact your cooking experience. Take a critical look at the assortment of pots and pans you've accumulated over the years. Are there duplicates or similar pieces that could be consolidated? Streamlining your collection can not only free up precious storage space but also simplify decision-making when it comes to meal preparation.

Consider the functionality of your cookware. Are there specialized items you bought for a specific purpose but rarely use? Perhaps that oversized stockpot or novelty-shaped pan seemed like a great idea at the time, but they've since become dust collectors. Re-evaluate whether these items serve a practical purpose in your kitchen or if it's time to pass them on to someone who might make better use of them.

While assessing your pots and pans, don't forget to check their condition! Over time, cookware can show signs of wear and tear. Handles may become loose, non-stick coatings may peel, or stainless steel might lose its shine. Such wear and tear not only affect the quality of your cooking but can also pose safety hazards. If you find any damaged or deteriorating pieces, consider replacing them to maintain a safe and enjoyable cooking environment.

If you’re in the market for a beautiful new addition to your collection, Le Creuset has some great deals as a part of the Amazon Prime Big Deal Days event happening October 10-11th.

Check out the official Help You Dwell Amazon Storefront for all of our top picks!

So, which method do you want to bring to life in your space this autumn? Whether you choose to display your pots and pans openly, opt for a pull-out hanging potholder, or embark on a decluttering journey, these kitchen organizational tips will not only make your life easier but also add a touch of creativity to your home. Embrace the change of the season and create a kitchen that's not only warm but wonderfully organized!

If the thought of decluttering and organizing your kitchen seems overwhelming, remember that you don’t have to to it alone! At Help You Dwell, we specialize in professional organization services that transform your home’s most loved spaces. Contact us to schedule a consultation and take the first steps towards a clutter-free, functional home for you and your family! 

CALL US AT 865.245.9080 OR BOOK OUR SERVICES HERE!

 

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Embracing Autumn’s Arrival: Transform Your Entryway For Fall

The arrival of autumn heralds a change in the air, the crisp scent of falling leaves, and a burst of warm colors that ignites our senses. It's the season of cozy sweaters, pumpkin flavored everything, and, of course, the perfect time to spruce up your home's entryway to reflect the beauty of fall! In this guide, we'll take you through some tips on how you can create a warm and inviting entryway that celebrates the magic of autumn.

1. Start with a Clean Slate 

Before you dive into any seasonal decorating, it's essential to start with a clean and clutter-free space. This is the ideal time to bid farewell to the items that accumulate by your entry way over the long summer months—expired sunscreen, old sunglasses, and summer toys—and either store them away or discard them. Give the area a thorough cleaning to prepare it for the upcoming season of indoor living.

2. Embrace Cozy Storage Solutions

As the days grow cooler, you'll want easy access to your fall essentials. Consider incorporating furniture with drawers or hooks to keep small accessories like gloves, scarves, and hats neatly organized. Creating a designated spot for these items not only adds functionality but also offers you the opportunity to rediscover those seasonal autumn accessories you haven't seen in a year! This simple addition will infuse a touch of autumn/winter fashion and cozy charm into your entryway.

3. Create a Warm & Welcome Exterior

To set the stage for a warm welcome, add a touch of fall foliage to your porch or door. A fall wreath, a couple of potted mums, or some strategically placed pumpkins can instantly infuse your entryway with the spirit of the season. You don't need an overwhelming amount of decor to create an inviting autumn ambiance. A simple seasonal welcome mat is an extra touch of charm that your guests will surely appreciate.

4. Decorate with Autumnal Flair

Petite Pumpkins: Display small pumpkins and gourds on shelves, tables, or even your entryway bench. Their warm hues and unique shapes add a touch of rustic elegance.

Candles and Lanterns: Place candles or lanterns with warm, flickering lights to create a cozy atmosphere. Scented candles with autumn fragrances like cinnamon and sandalwood or vanilla and apple spice can enhance your entryway experience.

Remember, the key to creating an autumnal entryway is to keep it simple and reflective of your personal style. Whether you prefer an eclectic rustic look or a more modern and minimalist approach, there are countless ways to infuse the warm feelings of fall into your home's entrance. With a clean slate, a dash of creativity, and a love for the season, your entryway can become a delightful reflection of autumn's splendor.

There’s no better time than now to get started on prepping your home to help create an environment that brings you peace before a busy season of holidays and hosting. Remember, bringing calm and order to your home is a process and we are happy to help you along the way!

CALL US AT 865.245.9080 OR BOOK OUR SERVICES HERE!

 

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Managing Your Haven for Learning

Learning at home, whether it is in a homeschool setting or just practicing skills and studying for tests, can often be a struggle for families. Children are busy with sports, friends, lessons, and more. They don’t always want to give you 100% when it comes to their studies. Often siblings, televisions, and neighbors ringing the doorbell can be a distraction. In our last blog we discussed some basics for creating a good learning environment. And in this blog, we’ve consulted the experts and loved the advice they gave, especially regarding homeschooling.

When setting up a learning/study space, it’s important to remember that it needs to be organized and easy for kids to navigate on their own. If a space is chaotic, it creates stress and frustration, and those are the last things any parent needs when trying to help their child learn and practice new skills. We’ve asked some friends who are homeschooling now, or have in the past, what tips they have for best managing a learning space. Here are some helpful tips and pictures they shared with us!


Rachel: Their family was a homeschool family in 2020 and then participated in a homeschool/co-op after that. Rachel was a teacher before working for Help You Dwell, so she already had a good understanding of how to teach concepts and lesson planning/pacing.

Tip: Switch it up. While they had a designated homeschool area in the dining room, they often went to other tables or areas in the house, and they got OUTSIDE as much as possible. They even sat on the roof a couple times! Rachel also mentioned the importance of taking field trips to help with learning and visiting the local library for reading time and to check out books. Learning doesn’t have to always take place at a desk. Younger kids do well with movement and change every 20-30 minutes.

Tip: Keep it simple. Too much visual noise on the walls and on desks/tables is overstimulating and too busy/distracting for little ones. It’s also easier to change things up as the year goes on as you are learning about various places and concepts.

Tip: Work for incentives! Kids are motivated by having goals and something to work toward. Make sure that you do things to keep them motivated and moving forward each day.


Heather: She has been homeschooling for 15 years. She has held homeschool in a dedicated room, but she’s also had to teach from the kitchen table when their family was between homes in an apartment. She doesn’t stick to a set schedule each day but does follow the same rhythms with her kids each day. Sometimes school is in the morning and sometimes it is at night. Heather also says she loves to travel and take trips with her kids to help with learning. She’s taken them to 48 states and says sometimes it’s those moments when you end up chasing a rabbit trail that the kids remember the most. If they are curious about something, Heather believes that you should let kids explore and go deeper. She feels there is immense value in going on field trips and getting out and learning from the real world.

Tip: Storage is important. When she had a dedicated room to teach in, she built in desks and used custom made cabinets for storage. She currently teaches in her home’s library and uses a bookshelf for storage. Each of her kids had a dedicated shelf for their workbooks and supplies, She also utilizes rolling carts for her teacher manuals and books she may be reading with her kids. She has a turn in basket on the wall where the kids know to place their work and she can easily grab it to grade. Heather loves magnetic whiteboards on her walls in their homeschool room AND in their kitchen. She says often they end up in the kitchen eating or snacking and it is nice to have a board in that room so that notes can be made, or concepts can be explained while everyone is sitting around the table.

Tip: Connect with others! The homeschooling network is HUGE. Heather emphasized the importance of connecting with other families during your homeschool journey. She said if you are a person who doesn’t love science experiments, reach out to others-there’s always someone in your network who would love to fill in the gaps where you might not feel confident. You can do the same in return!

Tip: Set expectations early. Heather likes to ease into learning at the start of the year. She staggers subjects and lets the kids get used to being back in “school mode” before diving in and trying to teach all subjects. But once they are in the groove she lays out their lessons and writes the to-do list for the day in the kids’ notebooks each morning. She has the semester planned on a calendar for reference so that she can pace herself in regards to teaching all standards.


Amber: Her family has been homeschooling for 8 years. She has 4 kids and has a dedicated room to teach in. Her kids participate in a co-op, so they are at school for 3 days and home for two. Amber loves the flexibility homeschooling gives her family. They don’t have a set start time each day but do follow the same routine on days when they are home. She loves that there is such a big homeschool community in our area and has a group chat with other homeschool families. She loves seeking guidance and help from others and says having that sense of community and knowing others are out there to help when you need it is a huge blessing.

Tip: Set a routine early. At the beginning of the week, she prints lesson plans and her kids put them in their binders. They also pull all the worksheets they will need for the week and are responsible for keeping their binders in order. They know how to use the printer and have a list of their passwords posted on the boards by their desks so that they can be more independent. The kids know that when their learning time is over, everything must be put back in its place and cleaned up.

Tip: Use the wall space. She has handwriting posters, maps, and magnetic whiteboards on the walls above the girls’ desks. She houses materials for teaching and learning in a set of bookshelves with supplies (dictionaries, flashcards, math manipulatives, art supplies, etc.) that are easily accessible. She also has shelving along the sides of the walls by the desks for extra storage for books, journals and work they need to complete. Amber uses bigger desks against the wall for her two older children and a smaller desk in the middle of the room for her younger. It is important to have appropriate seating for younger students who are still learning basic fine motor skills.

Tip: Keep a calm environment. Amber’s room has a large window with natural light that streams in the room all day. She diffuses oils and plays music at times to help with concentration and maintaining a calming environment for learning. Her kids often use noise cancelling headphones or ear buds when they are learning. This also helps minimize distractions.


All three of these lovely ladies mentioned the same thing when we were wrapping up our interviews: GIVE YOURSELF SOME GRACE. They all said that at first it seems difficult, and you want to try to do it all, but really, if you are instilling a love for learning then you are doing “school” the correct way. There are also several great resources in Knoxville that could supplement what you are doing at home. Knox Forest School, Corelli Art and Forest School, and The Muse are a few of the places that have weekly programs for kids of various ages. Remember, you can’t do it all, and it’s ok to have others supplement when possible. Homeschooling isn’t easy, but it is flexible and can be an incredible experience for your whole family.

A Haven for Learning

Back to school ads have started to run and stores are stocking their shelves with shiny folders and brand-new backpacks. Pencil boxes and packages of perfect, unbroken crayons are being snatched up as school supply lists get posted on schools’ websites. Kids and teachers are beginning to anticipate the start of school within the next few weeks, and the dog days of summer are in full swing. But for some, back to school doesn’t mean what it used to.

There’s no denying that education has changed over the past few years. During 2020, millions of students learned from home via computers and virtual classrooms. Learning looked quite different. Many even discovered the joy of learning from home and realized the flexibility it allowed. Serval other reasons parents have chosen homeschooling are because they want to provide a safe learning environment, they are frustrated with the current academic system and expectations, and often, religion also plays a part in the decision to homeschool. Whatever the reasons, we have seen a dramatic increase in the number of students who are homeschooled. According to the Census Bureau data, nearly 4.4 million school-age children in the US receive an education at home today.

Homeschooling looks quite different than it did years ago. There are co-ops, more opportunities for students to take classes for college credit, large networks for support, and more social interaction for students thanks to online clubs, classes, and even local field trips. If homeschool is something you are considering for your family or even something you’re already involved in but are overwhelmed by, we want to help! Even if you aren’t a part of a homeschool group and your child is in a traditional school setting, we have some great ideas to help every learner thrive at home.

  1. Be Thoughtful About the Space: Setting up a space for learning can be done in a variety of ways. You don’t have to have a dedicated room-be flexible! You could use the corner of a room or even the dining room table if that is what works best for your family. It’s also important to know your child’s learning style. This will help in how you set up your learning space and plan your day. You learner will need a table or desk to do work, If your student is younger, you are also going to want to make sure they have appropriate seating options as that is crucial for proper posture for good handwriting and learning fine motor skills. Try to make sure there is some good natural light and access to wi-fi. If the space is near a busy part of your home, noise cancelling headphones may be good for students who are easily distracted.

  2. Add Items to Serve Needs: It’s great if you have an entire room dedicated to homework or at home learning, but most people do not. If your child’s study space is also a space that is used by the rest of the family, you need to make sure you have a place for all their school “stuff.” Think outside the box. Maybe you have an empty drawer in your china hutch-use that for storing school supplies. Go to garage sales or thrift stores and look for furniture like old armoires you could repurpose. Clean out the hall closet and let that be where you store school items in storage bins. Being able to put items away and out of sight when you’re done with learning time is key. You want to make sure you have a dedicated drawer, bin, crate, etc. for each individual child’s workbooks/textbooks. Some homeschool mamas I’ve talked to even suggested assigning each child their own color to cut down on confusion.

  3. Create a Command Center: Use some wall space or the inside of a cabinet door that can be opened to post a schedule and calendar with due dates and upcoming events. As a former teacher of 20 years, I always found it beneficial for students to know what the week was going to look like, and for older kids, seeing an outline of the month can be helpful. Make sure there is a clock in the room, and younger students will need some type of dry-erase board or even a chalkboard painted onto the wall for teaching/practicing certain skills. You’ll need a place for students to turn in completed work (if it isn’t digital) as well as a place for supplies. Students need to have things like markers, crayons, pencils, pens, paper, etc. all readily available and in clearly labeled spots with easy access. This could even be a cart! Make sure you have some dedicated space in that command center for electronics storage and charging as well.

  4. Stay Organized: Establish routines and daily clean-up habits from the start. Yes, if you are homeschooling your schedule doesn’t have to be as rigid as a typical school, but your student needs a set routine so they know what to anticipate each day. You will also want to make sure your student knows where things go and how to clean up well at the end of their learning time. Practice this with them each day until it becomes a habit!

  5. Get Creative: School and studying doesn’t always have to be at a desk. Take class outside on days that it is nice, bring bean bags or comfy chairs into the space to create a cozy corner for reading, or have history class at a museum! School should be FUN.

When working through the homeschooling journey it is important to be flexible. If this is new for your family, you will need to really pay attention to your family’s natural rhythms to see how you might need to adjust your schedule and routines. There’s no right or wrong way to do it; you certainly need to find what works best for your family. All children can thrive and succeed!

Meet Margaret

Margaret Page is one of the nicest people you’ll ever meet. She’s a Knoxville native, wife, and mother of two who found her way back home after many years away. If you were to ask what she does, I’d quickly answer and say that she’s one of the best listeners I’ve ever met. Recently we met over coffee and doughnuts so she could tell me more about what she’s been up to since being back in Knoxville. I knew immediately that I had to write about her, as her mission of helping others feel whole and satisfied in their lives goes hand in hand with what we hope for all our clients at Help You Dwell.

Margaret has made a living doing grief work and creative arts therapy. She’s a certified grief educator with a background in expressive therapy and mental health counseling. She is also a lecturer in the expressive therapies field and has been a state-certified therapist in New York and Pennsylvania since 2005. Over the past twenty years, she’s done group, family, and individual counseling in the areas of creative arts therapy, dance, and verbal therapy.

Margaret’s personal statement about therapy is as follows;

My work is grounded in the belief that loss, difficult life transitions and unexpected change can lead us towards transformation.  If we find space to honor what’s been lost, we can move through life’s disappointments, find acceptance, and move into a chapter of life that feels deeply satisfying.  My work often focuses on the perspective of someone in the middle of life.  From parenting children to parenting aging parents, the middle of life often asks us to accept the half of life that is in the past, have faith in the half of life that is in the future, and find ways to be present in the now.  

I believe in meeting each of my clients where they are on their personal and spiritual journey.  My training and experience allow me to find the best way to work with individual clients–whether that’s talking, moving or making art.  For me, helping clients is not about any particular diagnosis but about seeing the best in people and reflecting it back to them.  

My personal experience caring for a mother with Alzheimer’s disease has taught me about the ambiguous nature of grief and how powerful it can be to consider what it means to be human.  I have had to learn how to come to terms with loss as well as how to find connection in a world without words.  

I believe that healing comes in relationships.  When we prioritize relationships above work, titles and ego, we allow ourselves to be seen and mirrored in a way that only happens through sharing ourselves with others.   

I also believe in the healing power of nature.  I encourage my clients to explore healing and growth through outdoor experiences.  I find walking, hiking, plunging and biking to be personally beneficial to me, and encourage clients to explore these or other outdoor activities.  

Margaret’s practice focuses on helping clients navigate various life experiences and transitions by considering overall mental well-being. She wants her clients to know that she’s there, walking along beside them on their journey.

Helping others find peace after loss, a move, or during different phases in life is something we love doing here at Help You Dwell, and forming good relationships and bonds with clients is critical. Many of our clients are not only struggling with clutter in their homes, but with clutter in their lives as well. While Help You Dwell can help organize and guide you through a move or transition, Margaret can help if you are struggling with loss, grief, or finding your way through a difficult time.

If you think you or someone you love would benefit from a listening ear with years of experience, she’d love for you to reach out. You can call her (347) 834-7351, or head to her website: margaretpagema.com to schedule a session with her.

Seasonal Clothing Switch Done Right

Warmer days are upon us here in East Tennessee and it’s time to break out the sundresses and tank tops! For many of us, this may mean a shift in our dresser drawers or closets. As with any transition in our lives, this is a great opportunity to take the extra time to ensure you store the clothing that feels good and fits, serves your current season of life, and you actually like it.


What to keep and what goes?

Here are some tips from one of our favorite resources, The Spruce, for how to make the decisions about what stays and what goes.


Once you’ve made the decisions on what to keep and what someone else can now enjoy, it’s time to decide how to store the keepers and how to share items that no longer serve you.

How to Store Seasonal Clothing

  1. Clean all seasonal clothing before packing.

  2. Use the right storage. HYD recommends a weather-proof bin such as this labeled “Off-Season Clothes” so that you store one bin of clothing per member of your household.

  3. Hang the proper items. HYD recommends hanging dress coats, winter dresses, and slacks or skirts properly with a breathable garment bag to reduce the risk of mold or mildew. Add a cedar block or sachet to deter visitors. Make sure to fold knit items and sweaters into a box to prevent stretching them on a hanger.


How to Share Unwanted Clothing

  1. Sell gently used clothing in a consignment sale.
    Here are some local options here in Knoxville:

    Statemint Consignment
    Planet Xchange
    Taylored by Maria
    Repeat Boutique
    Clothes Mentor

  2. Donate professional clothing to Smokey’s Closet at UTK or Dress for Success.

  3. Give clothing to local rummage sale. Check with churches, women’s shelters, or children’s groups to see who may be having a sale soon.

  4. Contact local homeless shelters directly. Call first to ask what items they are taking and how best to pack them so your donation is helpful and can go directly to those in need.

  5. Give away hand-me-downs to neighbors, friends, or family members. It’s fun to see your kids’ clothes or a dress that never fit you well on others who love it.


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Sweet Summertime and These 5 Things

Summertime is near and we are so excited about the change of pace that comes with it. There is so much to see and do in and around Knoxville and we wanted to share these 5 things with you!

Photo Credit: Paris Woodull

  1. Paris Woodhull: Even if you don’t know her name, you have probably seen her art around town. Paris Woodhull has made a career out of creating illustrations that celebrate Knoxville, mental health, and all things colorful. She has a brick-and-mortar shop in Market Square and does custom artwork as well. Learn more about her art and products here!

  2. Riverview Family Farm: This farm (and fellow Scout Guide member) has been a working farm since 1801. The 7th generation of the family now runs the farm and solely produces Black Angus beef. Their market also sells locally made honey, cheeses, and more! They have a 6,000 sq. ft barn you can rent for weddings and events. In the summer they also have delicious ice cream at the market to enjoy. If you've never been to an event or sale there, go visit and enjoy the beauty and peace farm life can bring.

  3. Rhinestone Fest: Dolly Parton is an icon. Knoxville will celebrate her June 2-4 during this festival in the Old City. This celebration (formerly known as Dolly Fest) is a family-friendly event that will celebrate all things Dolly, and it’s FREE to attend. Put on those cowboy boots and dress up in your Dolly-best for a weekend of art, music, history, food and fun celebrating Dolly!

  4. Dixie Lee Fireworks: Light up the sky this summer with fireworks from this family-owned fireworks stand. This year they celebrate 75 YEARS of business when they open NEXT WEEK, which makes them pretty legendary, too.

  5. Take a Selfie! Did you know Knoxville has over 40 murals? Take a walking tour downtown and see some of the amazing creations done by local artists. The Top 5 are listed here and they are a good place to start. Don’t forget to tag #knoxrocks if you post them on Instagram!

Kitchen Renovation Survival Tips

When I think of a “kitchen renovation” my mind immediately goes to the fun finishing details like cabinet hardware, decor, and the blissful feeling of a “new” kitchen. We’ve saved funds for it, so let’s do it! Admittedly… embarking upon a full-scale kitchen renovation brought about a lot more to decisions and considerations than I was prepared for. If you’re about to begin a project at home, here are a few things I’d encourage you to think through before beginning.

  • How can you prepare yourself (and whoever you share your home with) to live “well” during the transformation?

Kitchen- Ask your contractor up front and direct questions regarding how long you’ll be without cooking appliances or functionality. Get creative and consider alternative cooking methods - gas or charcoal grill, camping stove, a neighbors airbnb (we have the most generous neighbors in all the land), microwave set up in a different room, your basement, etc. You don’t have to eat out every meal to survive this, although a few takeout meals are entirely allowed.

Bathroom- Can you and your family members agree to share 1 bathroom for a period of time? Create a rhythm or rough schedule of shower times and who will need the space for what time each day. Create a makeshift “get ready” spot in another room of the house with a mirror, outlets, and natural light. Remember- this is not forever!

  • What are the MOST important features of your project that you aren’t willing to budge on?

There are so many ideals when we consider a home project - gaining more space, adding storage, increasing functionality, improve hosting capabilities, etc. My husband and I narrowed down to 2 main priorities for our kitchen which provided good guardrails when making small and large decisions. We wanted to increase functionality and create a kitchen we could host in. Everything else was second-tier. This prevents everything from feeling like the most important thing when prioritizing budget and choices. If we were stuck on a specific detail or question- we could ask ourselves “Does it add functionality or improve our ability to host?” and if the answer wasn’t an obvious yes, we decided that was a low priority and cost decision to make which helped bring a little simplicity.

  • Who can you trust to help you make decisions?

I personally found it tempting to want to google or create a poll for the whole world to chime in on some decisions, however, I’m so glad I didn’t. Do we really need the ideas and opinions of strangers guiding the decisions we make about our very own sacred home? No thanks. What I am glad I did, was invite a few close friends to speak into the project. I first shared my vision, the pain points, and our plans then asked if they see any gaps or have any suggestions. Select a very few trusted folks to do this with… too many voices can cause mental clutter and indecision. If you have a favorite designer or brand that you follow, stick with that for inspiration - not every influencer, trendsetter, or mom blog will be your vibe and that’s ok. Think of actual real places you’ve been and what you loved about those homes and consider what concepts you can take from them. Ask a friend in a season of life ahead of you what they wish they would’ve done differently in their own home.

  • How will you adapt as timelines, budgets, or plans change?

Inevitably things change… due to supply chain issues, weather, product availability, etc. When things change there is often a cost (involving literally money and also time). Be prepared for this. Your contractors and designers cannot anticipate EVERYTHING. Especially if your home is older, there may be unexpected plumbing or electrical issues that need to be resolved. One thing you could consider is to aim to schedule the demo portion of your home project while your family (or even just children) will be out of town. Do you have friends or family you could “house sit” for while they are away? Get creative (if your budget allows) with where you spend your days and nights during renovations.

  • What do you hope to feel/experience in your new space?

Start with the end in mind. What memories do you hope to make in your new space? How will the space be used day in and day out? Build from that vision. If warmth, coziness, and comfort is important to you- carry that through your color choices. If simplicity, clean lines, and minimalism is your style- let that guide your decisions around new items that will fill your space. If character and story are vital, then take your time to collect and hunt for the right pieces to fit your new space. Take your time and remember that things that are worthwhile, can take time.

  • What are some ways you can save your sanity amidst the chaos?

The biggest secret I’ll let you in on is this - HIRE THE EXPERTS. Seriously, most anyone “can” pack up their kitchen and unpack after completion… but what if there’s a better way? I’m talking about getting fresh eyes, extra hands, and thoughtful organizational experts to make suggestions on how to best utilize your newly improved space. On my own, I would likely just put everything back as close to the way I had it previously. However, when the HYD gals stepped in I was given fresh perspective and new ideas about how to best set up my space in a way that improves functionality and eliminates wasted space. We talked through how our space is used, what items I grab most, and the flow of our kitchen throughout the day. With minimal expense of new “organizing supplies” - we were able to give everything a spot, create zones, and implement systems that I can utilize every day.

A few other ways to save sanity- adjusting your regular routine from nightly baths for your kiddos to every other night - everyone will survive. Pick up pizza or Chick-fil-a more than normal, that’s ok too. Remember this is a season and it will end. Making some adjustments to our normal day-to-day can save a little time, sanity, and effort. I can personally say I don’t recommend (your husband) trying out a new diet (Whole30) while trying to expand your infant’s exposure to new foods in the middle of a kitchen renovation- but, we survived. Shamelessly, we used a lot of paper plates (apologies to the environment, we promise to be better as soon as we have a working sink).

We are nearing the completion of our kitchen renovation and we are already LOVING our new space (literally we gained square footage). So even though everything isn’t quite “finished”- we have functional appliances and beautiful cabinets and floors… aka we are finally cooking! Seeing the vision that lived in your head, come to life is a pretty rewarding experience. I’m so glad we lived in our home for a year prior to making any major changes like this. And it feels pretty darn good to know that we are utilizing our space well, thanks to the help of the experts. Everything in the kitchen has a “home” and the best part is, everything is accessible and functional.

Moving Day... an opportunity to start over.

Image by: Texture Photo

A new place to call home can be such an exciting time as you dream of how you want your new space to look and feel.


It can also be a bit overwhelming when you think of packing up and toting it all to your new home, especially when you have items you really don’t want to bring.


This is why moving is such a great time to take inventory and consider your current season of life and pack only those items that honor this season and/or inspire you as you look to the future.

Have you started a new job and need to update your wardrobe?
Do you have a new creative outlet or hobby?
Have your kids outgrown their toys, clothes, or room decor?
Is it time to let go of handed-down furniture and decor that is no longer serving me well?

These questions are a great place to start when you begin planning for life in your new home. Once you’ve taken a moment to do so, you’re now ready to get started! Check out our helpful moving guide below and feel free to share with others preparing to move.

Celebrate Mom

There’s a song by the Band Perry called, “If the World Had a Mother Like Mine,” and every single time I hear it, I find myself in a puddle of tears. My mother is simply the most amazing person I’ve ever known. I could list accolades for pages and pages. Anytime I had to write about who my hero was during my years in school, it was always my mother. I truly believe that the world can learn so much from them.

I recently read a book called The Eternal Mark of a Mom (by Linda Weber) and it really resonated with me. As mothers, the work we do is impactful and important, and that work will leave a mark on the next generation forever. Being a mother is also a very tough job. It seems with every passing year, there is some new phase to navigate with our children, and there’s no rule book for us to follow. And if we’re being honest, we are all just doing the very best we can in hopes that we get it right most of the time. If we lived in a perfect world, we could protect our kids from being hurt and disappointed, we’d always know the right thing to say when they are fearful or nervous, and we’d never fight.

Mother’s Day is a day set aside for us to celebrate mom, or any other woman who has been a mother figure in our lives. When we sit down and think about those women, there are probably countless lessons they’ve taught us and many things we probably catch ourselves doing or saying that we learned from these amazing women. I am grateful for the lessons and advice my mother shared with me, and I’m blessed that she’s still here with me, giving advice or a listening ear when I need it.

As Mother’s Day approaches, I hope you will reflect and share with the women who helped shape you just how grateful you are. I also love the idea of giving clutter-free gifts that would allow those special women to have some pampering or an experience you can share with them. Here are some great ideas for that special lady in your life:

If you’re lucky enough to still have your mom, we hope you celebrate Mother’s Day with her in a big way this year.

Estate Transitions

THERE OFTEN COMES A TIME IN ALL OUR LIVES OR OUR LOVED ONE'S LIVES WHEN WE HAVE TO SAY GOODBYE TO THE PLACE WE'VE CALLED HOME.

Estate Transitions are not easy. The loss of a loved one or helping aging parents move to a new living situation can be overwhelming. Often, you are facing decades worth of memories and items that have accumulated, and the thought of downsizing and packing everything up becomes a monumental task with many hurdles. A parent's home filled with memories, trinkets, collections, photographs, furniture (both valuable and not), and years’ worth of things that are so overwhelming to go through.

Those of us at Help You Dwell understand that estate transitions are no small task. Our team is not only equipped with knowledge and experience, but with kindness and consideration. Every transition is personal, and we love getting to know our clients and their specific needs so we can serve them in the best way possible.

If you hire us to help with an estate transition, here are some things it will include:

  • inventory of belongings/packing and labeling of items

  • assisting with the decision-making process of which items would be most conducive to a new space

  • recommendation of service providers (moving company, real estate agent, handyman, etc.)

  • estate sale planning

  • consultation with family regarding disbursement of excess items to other family members, donation centers, or others in need

When we come in to help, we go through every cabinet, dresser drawer, bookshelf, box, closet, trunk, and room to categorize, label, box up, and create order so that when the time comes, you can easily decide what to keep, what to sell, and what to donate.  HYD feels honored to be trusted with such an important job which is why we take such care with each object we touch, paper we read, photo we categorize, and memory we help to preserve. It all stays confidential, and our clients can feel safe knowing that we will find the right home(s) for any items they choose not to hold on to.

If you have any questions or interest in learning how we might help you or a loved one with transitioning into a new home, please don't ever hesitate to call or email us at 865.245.9080 or info@helpyoudwell.com.

We've also updated our website in a few places to describe in more detail how and what HYD can assist with, especially related to estate transitions and organized moving and unpacking.

We would love to get to know you and your specific needs so we can serve you in the best way possible.