Organizing

How to Start Decluttering When You Don't Know Where to Begin: The 4 Box Method

If you’re staring at clutter and wondering how to start decluttering, you’re not alone. Feeling overwhelmed is one of the biggest reasons people delay organizing their homes — not because they don’t care, but because they don’t know where to begin.

That’s where the 4 Box Method comes in. This simple decluttering system helps you make decisions quickly, stay focused, and actually finish the space you start.

What Is the 4 Box Method?

The 4 Box Method is a professional organizer–approved decluttering technique that uses four clearly labeled categories:

  • Keep – items you use, need, or truly love

  • Donate – items in good condition that no longer serve you

  • Discard – broken, expired, or unusable items

  • Relocate – items you are keeping but belong somewhere else in your home

By giving every item an immediate “home,” you eliminate decision fatigue — one of the biggest obstacles when decluttering for beginners.

Why This Decluttering Method Works

Many people try to declutter by organizing first — buying bins, moving piles, or rearranging shelves. Often you have what you need, and are simply moving clutter around to new spaces in your home.

The 4 Box Method works because it:

  • Creates momentum through small wins

  • Prevents overthinking

  • Helps you declutter one space at a time

How to Start Decluttering Using the 4 Box Method

Follow these steps to begin decluttering your home without stress:

1. Choose a Small, Specific Space

Start with a drawer, shelf, or single category — not an entire room. This builds confidence and prevents burnout.

2. Set Out Four Boxes, Bags, or baskets

Label each one clearly: Keep, Donate, Discard, Relocate.

3. remove each item One Item at a Time

Ask yourself:

  • Do I still need/use this?

  • Do I need this in my current season of life?

  • Can this serve someone else?

Place it in the appropriate box and move on.

5. Finish the Process

Place your “Keep” items back in the space you organized. Remove trash immediately. Place donate items in your car or by the door. Take your “Relocate” items to their proper homes.

If you need help decluttering your home, preparing for a move, or creating systems,
Help You Dwell is here to support you every step of the way.

A New Year Doesn’t Require a New You

A New Year Doesn’t Require a New You

Here we are nearing the end of January, and it’s not too late! For what? To make subtle shifts to our systems, tweak your habits, and practice letting go of excess. We can approach this new year with a fresh start while still being kind to ourselves and our homes.

Bathroom Refresh: Small Updates That Make a Big Difference

Your bathroom is one of the most-used spaces in your home—so why not make it a space you actually love? A few thoughtful tweaks can transform it from cluttered and chaotic into calming and functional.

1 | Declutter

  • Toss any expired products (yes, even that half-used bottle you meant to try)

  • Clear out duplicates or items you don’t love

  • Pull everything out, inspect, and wipe down the surfaces behind

Why this matters: Starting from zero gives you visibility and clarity when redesigning storage.

2 | Define Zones + A Home for Everything

Divide your bathroom into functional zones (e.g. grooming, skincare, cleaning, linens). For each zone, assign a home for its items:

Tip: Use clear jars or canisters for cotton pads, Q-tips, etc.—they help you see when it’s time to refill.

3 | Embrace Minimal Display + Thoughtful Decor

  • Choose 2–3 items to display (a soap dish, a tray, a plant, or a candle)

  • Keep it simple & intentional — avoid “decor clutter”

  • Hide the rest inside drawers, cabinets, or behind mirrored doors

    Bonus: A small plant (like a snake plant or pothos) or a framed print can soften the hardness of tile/ceramic and bring life into the space.
    Some local shops we love: Oglewood Avenue, Pope’s, & Stanley’s Greenhouse

4 | Upgrade Storage Solutions (Without a Reno)

You don’t need to gut your bathroom to improve functionality. Try:

5 | Maintenance Rituals

  • Clean mirrors and grout regularly to keep the space feeling crisp

  • Weekly: Wipe down counters, discard trash, return items to their “home”

  • Monthly: Declutter under sink, check expiration dates, re-fold linens

  • Seasonal: Reassess what’s working, re-balance your zones, update decor

A bathroom refresh doesn’t need a full remodel. Purging, zoning, thoughtful display, and clever storage upgrades go a long way in making your space feel both beautiful and functional. 

Who knows what organizing one small space in your home or workspace could lead to?

As always, if these tasks sound just like what you need but time is limited, Help You Dwell would be honored to help you along your journey to order in your space. 

10 Ways to Create a Welcoming Guest Room

10 Ways to Create a Welcoming Guest Room

I don't know about you but one thing I can really appreciate is a well thought out guest room. It's amazing how the little things can make such a huge difference in whether a stay is memorable in a good way or a bad one. We have come up with a list of our top tips in creating the ideal space for guests and we would love to share them with you.

Knoxville Donation Spots We Love

Knoxville Donation Spots We Love

After you’ve done the work of deciding what items to let go of, it’s important to make a wise decision about where to donate your items. We are always eager to fulfill our clients specific wishes on where certain items are donated, when they have an organization or place in mind. Today we’re sharing a few local donation spots you might not know about!

Spice It Up

Spice It Up

The “right” way to set up a kitchen is to make it functional for YOU and how you use it. When tackling the spices the two key factors are access & visibility so that you can get what you need when you need it. One of the best things we can recommend is investing in uniform containers. This isn’t always required, but will be a huge help if you want to take your spice storage to the next level.

Clear the Clutter, Calm the Mind

Clear the Clutter, Calm the Mind

Lauren Wilson, LMSW BA shares her wisdom - The ongoing struggle for peace and order at home is a familiar one. Many of us are feeling swamped by the demands of life and messy homes can be a side effect. There is a connection from our home to the mind and body - a disorganized living space can negatively impact your sense of emotional well-being.

Seasonal Shift: Summer to Fall

Seasonal Shift: Summer to Fall

As our schedules change and the weather slowly cools down, the way we live in our homes shift too. Our wardrobes, meals, daily activities, and routines are all affected. There is something powerful that happens we we pause and look ahead to what is next. We find that there are lots of little ways we can be mindful and prepared for the season ahead.

Too Much of a Good Thing by SK Carr

Too Much of a Good Thing by SK Carr

Our very own SK, shares her thoughts on living with less… here's the truth: the more stuff we own, the more of our energy it consumes. In most cases, less truly is more—not for aesthetics, but for function, peace of mind, and ease. Let’s walk through a few common spaces in the home where excess tends to sneak in and explore how simplifying can transform your day-to-day experience.